Wednesday, August 09, 2006
Becki's FAQs
When Morley and I woke up this morning, we were both in terrible moods. We're having trouble with the phone company, the stock market, and the sale of our house in Toronto. Morley has job irritations and I have book publicity worries. A pestilential darkness lurked in every corner. The minute we checked our email, however, the whole day brightened up.
Becki had sent a note -- and photos! Knowing that our sons and our surrogate were doing well made all the other little worries and problems of life seem unimportant. The things that truly matter are going beautifully. We'd like to share with you one of the picutres of what Becki looks like six months pregnant. (Click on the photo to see it full-sized.) She also sent along a list of her own FAQs and her answers to them. She compiled the list with her husband, Scott, and her 14-year-old son, Brody. We're sure you'll find the FAQs as interesting as we did.
Tim
Becki's Frequently-Asked Questions
Q. Aren't you going to have trouble giving them up after carrying them for so long?
A. No, I know that they will be cared for by wonderful parents.
Q. Do you know the parents?
A. We do now, and we absolutely love them!
Q. Don't you hate being pregnant?
A. No, I love it.....
Q. Will you still have contact with the parents and babies after they are born?
A. That is entirely up to the parents. We are okay with whatever they choose.
Q. How does Scott and Brody feel about what you're doing?
A. They are as excited and very much involved in the pregnancy.
Q. Did they use your egg?
A. No, I chose to be a gestational surrogate. I received the embryos after they were already created.
Becki

Tim
Becki's Frequently-Asked Questions
Q. Aren't you going to have trouble giving them up after carrying them for so long?
A. No, I know that they will be cared for by wonderful parents.
Q. Do you know the parents?
A. We do now, and we absolutely love them!
Q. Don't you hate being pregnant?
A. No, I love it.....
Q. Will you still have contact with the parents and babies after they are born?
A. That is entirely up to the parents. We are okay with whatever they choose.
Q. How does Scott and Brody feel about what you're doing?
A. They are as excited and very much involved in the pregnancy.
Q. Did they use your egg?
A. No, I chose to be a gestational surrogate. I received the embryos after they were already created.
Becki